Why Is Your Cart Abandonment Rate So High?



After years of studying checkout pages that struggle, we’ve realized that cart abandonment isn't usually the result of a single catastrophic failure.
Rather, it’s the result of many small frictions that aren’t hard to fix!
This post covers:
Are You Too Aggressive and Annoying Shoppers?
Are You Laying Too Much Emphasis on Process?
Mistakes That Most Stores Make
Here are 15 Questions to Ask Yourself

In our frantic quest to "optimize," we have somehow convinced ourselves that a customer’s screen should resemble a chaotic game of Whac-A-Mole.
A customer arrives on a homepage and is immediately blinded by a pop-up offering 10% off.
They swat it away, only to be met by a hovering "chatbot" named Gary who desperately wants to know how their day is going.
They move their mouse toward the scroll bar, and aha! an "exit-intent" overlay screams that they’re making a terrible mistake.
As marketers, don’t we need to be a bit more empathetic toward our prospective customers?
According to Gartner’s 2024 Consumer Survey, roughly 52% of consumers reported they would likely stop doing business with a brand that "over-communicates" or feels too intrusive.
In my opinion, the ideal strategy is to understand the fine line between "helpful guide" and "clinging vine."
To put it simply, the modern checkout process seems exhausting.
You begin with your name (fair enough), proceed to your address (logically sound), but soon find yourself deep in the weeds of "Address Line 2", a field that 71% of sites still fail to hide when empty, leading to no end of confusion for those of us living in houses with only one floor.
The data suggests we are suffering from a chronic case of over-engineering.
According to recent studies, the average US checkout flow still subjects the poor, weary traveler to 23.48 default form elements.
This is despite the fact that their research proves an "ideal" flow, one that doesn't cause a minor existential crisis, requires only about 12 to 14.
Data reveals that 22% of shoppers, nearly one in four, will simply abandon their cart if the process feels too long or complicated.
Here’s the bottom line: if you make your customers’ lives easier, they love buying from you.
Having spent the better part of a decade peering into confusing corners of several thousand eCommerce checkouts, one begins to notice patterns.
It’s much like being a structural engineer in a city where everyone insists on building their front doors on the roof.
When we audit a site, we aren't just looking for broken links; we are looking for the "logic-defying hurdles" that owners have become blind to.
Here are the most common ways we see stores accidentally showing their customers the door:
We’ve all seen the flickering red timers and the banners claiming "38 people are looking at this pair of socks right now."
Modern shoppers aren't just savvy; they’re cynical. We’ve found that "dark patterns" and aggressive pressure tactics are seen as breaches of trust.
If your "limited time offer" has been running since the late Obama administration, your customers will notice it.
We see this everywhere. A massive, empty field during checkout that screams, "You are currently paying more than you should!" It is an invitation to leave.
Cart abandonment occurs when people leave the site to search for a discount code and never return. The ideal solution is to make it easy for customers to apply a discount instead of having them look for a code.
You click "Submit," the page refreshes, and... nothing. Somewhere, in a field you’ve already scrolled past, a tiny red asterisk is sulking because you didn't include a hyphen in your zip code.
Our experts have found that "technical site errors or crashes," including poor error handling, account for a significant percentage of all lost sales. If the user doesn't know why they failed, they won't try again.
A site that looks stunning on a 27-inch iMac but requires the dexterity of a concert pianist to use on an iPhone.
We still find "Buy" buttons that are too close to "Cancel" buttons, and dropdown menus that disappear when you breathe on them. With mobile abandonment rates still staggering, ignoring the "thumb-friendliness" of your store is a serious form of self-sabotage.
Before you invest in a fleet of carrier pigeons to chase down your lost customers,
I suggest you sit quietly with a cup of tea and ask your store these fifteen rather pointed questions:
1. The "Stranger Danger" Test: Can a person buy a single, solitary item from me without being forced to create a permanent account and tell me their favorite childhood pet?
2. The Surprise Tax: Am I revealing shipping costs on the product page, or am I waiting until the very last second to spring them like a jack-in-the-box?
3. The "Thumb" Factor: Can a person with reasonably sized thumbs and perhaps a slight case of morning grogginess navigate my checkout on a mobile phone without accidentally clearing their cart?
4. The Administrative Burden: Does my checkout have more than 14 form fields? (If it’s closer to 24, you aren’t running a shop; you’re running a census).
5. The Coupon Exit: Is my "Discount Code" box so prominent that it practically begs the user to leave and wander the dark corners of the internet in search of a "SAVE10" code?
6. The Trust Tally: If I were a total stranger, would I trust this page with my credit card, or does it look like it was designed by a shadowy organization in a basement?
7. The Speed Trap: Does my page load in under two seconds, or does it give the customer enough time to contemplate the heat death of the universe?
8. The Payment Palette: Do I offer more than just "Credit Card"? (In 2026, if you aren't offering digital wallets, you’re essentially asking for payment in gold doubloons).
9. The "Oops" Feedback: If a user makes a mistake on a form, should I clearly highlight exactly where it is, or should I leave them to play a frustrating game of "Guess the Error"?
10. The Breadcrumb Trail: Is there a clear progress bar, or is the user wandering blindly through an infinite series of "Next" buttons?
11. The Ghost of Fees Past: Are there "handling fees" or "processing surcharges" that appear at the final tally? (Nothing curdles the soul faster than a $3 "convenience" fee).
12. The Return Policy Panic: Is my return policy easy to find, or is it buried in a 40-page PDF written in ancient Latin?
13. The Interruption Factor: Have I disabled that "Exit Intent" pop-up that screams at people the moment they try to think about their life choices?
14. The Security Blanket: Are my SSL certificates and security badges up to date, and are they placed where they actually provide comfort?
15. The Final Hurdle: Have I tried to buy something from my own store in the last thirty days? (You’d be surprised how many merchants haven't walked their own gauntlet.
If you answered "no" or "I'm not sure" to more than three of these, then your abandonment rate needs to be fixed.
Read next:
Why Are Shoppers Dropping Off My Checkout Flow?
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